Like other parents they also showed so much of opposition that we expected and not even a single day has passed without crying. We met each other at our workplace but we resigned our job for better career. He got Job first in our hometown itself and in 2009 august i got job in one of the MNC with a very good pay, so i consoled my parents and left my home town and stayed with one of my relative home for work purpose. My cousin sister (i was staying in their home for job purpose) is an ardent devotee of Sai from her childhood and had experienced so many miracles in her life and she advised me to start worshiping Sai to see the difference in my love life. In 2010 November one fine Thursday she took me to our Baba Mandir and asked me to pray whatever i feel like my problems are. I started praying like i use to pray with other Gods.
I got a Government Job and i was asked to join immediately in the month of Feb 2011, and my Boy-friend went overseas for job on same Feb 2011. I started believing Sai and started feeling His presence all the time. but there was no change at my home regarding our marriage, i want to be with my family i love to see them but i always feel scared to come to my home town even on weekends because all the time they will be talking about my marriage and arrange for the bride and bridegroom meeting function.
Days passed and i was getting older, as a parents they want to shoulder down their burden and want me to get married but i was stubborn in my decision of getting married to my Boy friend. In the year 2012 one of my relative who is also a Sai devotee advised my Father to put Yes or No chits in front of Baba at His temple and do as Baba’s wish regarding my marriage. I don’t remember that i have slept that day night. i was praying Baba literally for the whole night that He should answer Yes to my dad when he comes to temple the next day. My dad went to temple with two chits. Obviously Baba fulfils His children’s wish. My happiness knew no bounds and i felt i was the
happiest person on Earth. But still my parents worried a lot about other elders in the family and the society, even after Baba said yes to our marriage they keep convincing me for other alliance. I cannot explain the pain i suffered during those days.
Finally in the year 2013 they agreed for the marriage after discussing with each and every single person in our family and they fixed the date on November 22 2013. I was keeping Nav Guru Vrat and before the 9th Thursday my marriage date has been fixed, it was possible only because of Baba. I got married to my Boy friend on the fixed date. We were so happy and Baba blessed us with what we want. We went to Shirdi on April 21st with my family and had nice Darshan of our Baba 4 times and attended Aarti. I feel Baba has gifted my life with such a loving and caring husband (born on Thursday) but there is no rule that his parents also has to be like him, so for them i am the ugliest creature in the whole Universe and they not even treat me as a girl and looked as i am who comes from the family of below poverty line. After marriage also i did not sleep even a single day without crying but everyday i thanked Baba heart fully for giving such a understanding and loving husband.
One day his parents started cursing me as they usually do but even my husband was not able to bear the words they speak so we came out of the home and we did not go where to go so he took me to Baba temple and we were out of words and speak only heart to heart to Baba through tears. We decided to live alone and construct a new house (we want to name as Dwarkamai) so again he decided to leave abroad, i applied for passport before marriage itself but since i am in a govt job there are so many rules and restrictions even to apply passport. I need to get NOC (No Objection Certificate) from my head quarters to apply passport. I had got NOC (i was not married that time) but because of some personal issues i could not apply passport within 6 months but the validity of NOC was 6 months. My application got rejected from the passport office stating NOC has been expired. I went to my headquarters for the fresh NOC. After 2 months of so many procedures and communications they issued new NOC (i got married when i get the 2nd NOC). Me and my husband went to passport office with the new NOC. I was asked to meet the passport granting officer and my token no was 9(felt happy).
There i was so scared waiting outside because 8 other candidates who were standing before all their applications were getting rejected by the granting officer. Then i went inside her cabin when my turn comes, i had tears filled in my eyes wherever i turned in that room i could see only our Baba photo everywhere nearly more than 10 Baba photos would have been in that room. She asked me whether i am married, i said yes and i produced my marriage certificate and she asked whether to add my spouse name in passport, i said yes. She signed in her green pen and said that i will get my passport in 1 week. I was so happy, i came out to meet my husband to tell all these, he was on a call speaking to visa processing people about my visa(he got his visa already), they were telling that my passport should have my husband’s name also( as a spouse )to process my visa. If i would have apply it with my 1st NOC (since i was not married that time) my husband name would not be in the passport only i will be marked as single in marital status and only my father name would have been there but Baba delayed for 6 months and the passport granting officer (Sai devotee) issued passport with My husband’s name. Every single action and move is Baba’s Leela only.
My husband was called to resume his duty and hence he left me with heavy heart to join his duty on June 16th, he got job in KSA and there is no tourist visa for that country, I can go there only through visit visa but there are so many rules and restrictions to get that. Again For going abroad i have to get another NOC from my department already i have got that (6 months validity) with a strict warning that they will not issue NOC again. Now i am staying with my parents and waiting for my visa, i have got the NOC issued dated 20th June and already 3 months over but still so many formalities are pending to process visa we are very much worried. My mind always thinks about Sai only i speak with Him i fight with Him i Cry with Him 24/7 i am thinking about Him and always i use to test Him to show His presence and always i get only positive symptoms but my husband advised me not to disturb Him always since He has so many devotees to take care. He cannot look only on us but He will do only good for us and so be patient and stop testing Him. I said ok but everyday i keep crying thinking about my husband and speak to Baba why Baba before also i was crying and after marriage also there is no ending for my crying and no peace in my life, please do some miracle and send me to my husband.
I did not disturb Baba for 1 week to show His miracle but again started feeling so depressed and crying aloud and again asked Baba to show His presence and i don’t know when i slept that night. Baba showed His presence and He came in my dreams He took me to Shirdi and i went to Dwarkamai and Chavadi, there i saw Baba in human form. I woke up with tears that how Baba likes me so much and answered my prayers like He Himself came in my dreams. Now me and my husband are in 9 weeks fast and 4 weeks has been completed. My husband already read Sai Satcharitra and i am going to start reading from next week i know Baba will make me complete this. I am planning to take medical leave to complete the Parayan with 7 days as prescribed. I request all the devotees to pray for me to meet my husband. We love each other to the core since 8 years but still we are not able to live together after marriage also. I am going mad missing him and suffering by so much of depression, only through all your prayers and by our Sai i can meet my husband and start living my life with him. Not even a single nano second has passed without thinking about our Baba. Please Baba forgive me for my mistakes and help us to get the visa soon before the NOC expires otherwise i cannot go abroad in my lifetime. Dear Hetal ji i believe if you pray for us i can get my visa soon and meet my husband. Each and every devotee’s prayers meant a lot to me. Om Sai Sri Sai Jai Jai Sai.