I am currently working in an IT company. When I was in India, the company processed my visa and asked me to travel to USA. I denied saying that I want to get married and can’t go. They kept up building pressure on me. I asked Baba and got the answer from Q & A book that have faith on Baba and everything will be sorted out. I told my parents to search a bride for me within the next 2 months else will go to USA.
My parents with my uncle’s help gave a ad in paper and lot of proposals came. I was on the verge of finalizing two proposals and at the last moment with Baba’s grace. Those two proposals didn’t work out. Finally we short listed 5 proposals, but my uncle found one more proposal, which I was not interested as the girl was staying in USA in a different city to where I am going. But by the time, I went to my native to look for the proposals. All the proposals didn’t work out, but this proposal worked out to be good. I met the girl parents and they were really good. Then everyone was thinking without we meeting each other how can we fix the marriage. The girl’s father, after two days, told me that the girl is coming from USA and have to delay my return for 2-3 days more. I met the girl for 4 hours and we discussed and finally decided we will go for it. And after two days, we got engaged. After that I and the girl we talked about each other nicely.
Then I came to USA and the girl went to her sisters marriage in India. The way, she was talking and the way she was expressing her rights on me and the way she was treating her and my family, I slowly and slowly felt in love with the girl. Even she was also happy and I felt good that she was made for me. But after I came to USA, I had tremendous pressure in terms of work. So I just formally talked with the girl every day. I used to call her daily and talk formally. Slowly I observed that her talks went very formal. One day her sister called me and told that she is behaving in a awkward way and she felt there is some problems. I talked and decided to meet the girl in USA.I had lot of aspirations that I will spent some nice time with my fiancée as I am meeting her for the first time. I met her in USA for the first time.
She came to meet me and first day we had planned to go to a place and we spent nicely. She was really good and I was happy to spend some time together with my girl. I really felt nicely. The next day also we went to some other place and while taking our lunch I asked her that I am missing something in you. What happened and what is the problem. She told me that she is not good and she is not ready for the marriage, which is in Nov and if we proceed we might end up in divorce. I didn’t expect such answer from her. I was just thinking about her parents and my parents, how happy they were and what will happen to them. She was telling that she is bad and she won’t be able to meet me and my family expectations. I told that I will give all the support, but she was telling that she knows herself and she is sure that things won’t work out.
I was not interested to roam here and there and was not feeling good. She asked me that she will take a photo of mine. How can I take a photo at this time? Finally I told her family about it. They were really sad to know all this. She is still talking to me, but in a formal way. I asked Baba once again from Q & A book and He told me that things will take place as desired and you will be happy once again. Her parents got angry and stopped talking to her. I asked them not to do that as she is alone and she loves them very much. Even she termed my love for her as attraction. I don’t know what’s troubling her from inside? Baba I am worried about her. She is telling that I will get a good girl, but I don’t want anything good than her. Slowly I am feeling good as she started talking to her mother and sister. I am happy about it as I love her so much and don’t want her to have any problems with her family because of me.
Her family is still with me and I haven’t told my parents about it and have given the assurance to the girl’s parents that she will change and she will love me the way she used to have. I have faith in Baba that whatever Baba is doing is happening for the better, but both our parents have accepted each other families and have accepted her as my wife. But I don’t know why she is saying all these. Hetal Ji, please pray to Baba for me and help me to get the girl of my life. I am not able to share this with anyone, so thought of sharing it in the site so that the prayers of all the Sai devotees and blessings of Baba will come to my help. Om Sai Ram.