Anonymous Devotee says: Hi Hetal Ji, I am unable to submit it through your blog, since most of the sites are blocked in my office. Hence I am sending you an email with experience. If you think, re-framing the email is required, please do it. But please post it. I am sharing the terrible experience and facing the tough time of my life. Please do not disclose my email id and name.
Baba has fulfilled many of my wishes, be it a job, where I was asking for a MNC post my engineering. I got it in a desired company only. Later I wanted onsite I got it through Baba’s grace only. Then changed another job, I got the pay which I never expected and none of my peers were getting that pay. Baba made it for me which I never asked. Professionally Baba is always helping me.
This story will be long, but really I have to share and need all your help in praying. We family are in such a situation. When it comes to personal life, yes He’s helping me in all the ways. But when it comes to life partner, whom my parents have been searching for the last 6 years, we have not got the desired proposal. Nothing much we desire. Boy should be an engineer and good guy. We are not looking for financially settled boy or anything like that. Baba knows everything. I was recently engaged to a guy, where he’s 8-9 years elder to me, profession change and very short and dark. On top it, he’s very doubtful.
My family is such a traditional family, where we value culture and ethics mean a lot. My parents are very nice, good hearted and helping hander. Finally after a week of engagement, it got cancelled for the reason. I didn’t touch his finger while putting ring. I was happy, because everyone said Baba made it. He didn’t want you to marry that guy. You would have to compromise a lot on everything. Baba knows what to give it for me. My dad was unable to bear it because he always expects best things to be done for me. If any good things happen to me, he used to tell it to everyone. He was a people man, where he helps all the needy people. He used to give food to the people without having himself. My dad was not educated, but he made sure that he got everything for us. He gave everything to us. He was very good at heart. He was not keeping anything in his heart. He was treating everyone, from highly educated guy to cleaner in the same way. Dad and mom struggled a lot to come to the position what we are now.
2 months ago, boy called and asked to cancel the engagement. He was such a rude and harsh talking. Dad could not bear it. He consumed poison and passed away leaving all 5 of us after battling life in the hospital for a week. We family are in completely critical situation, where people are not coming ahead to marry me. My dad consumed poison. We tried so much to save him. But we could not get my dad. Everyone got to know that my dad did it because I didn’t agree for that proposal. Dad was so helping and speaking with all the people without any bias. People are saying that my father died because of me only. My dad was in depression for my marriage. I am 24 years only. But in our family, girls will marry very early and I still have 2 younger sisters. Financially my father made everything for all of us, but this marriage was a big concern for my dad. Now my mom went in depression thinking whether I will get marry or not. Some people came and went and they said this is what happened to your daughter. And nobody is coming in front and some are telling we have teacher in village and one guy 36 yrs old. Give it to them. Don’t look for the age. I always think they will be matured, but it will over mature. There will be generation gap. I am constantly praying Baba to give good life partner so that my family will be happy. Within this year, I and my sister should get married. I am asking every one of you to pray for me and my family please. I should get a life partner who is good heart.
Frankly, mom says I am like my dad. I do good things to other and everyone say that I am good heart and helping others. But I really don’t understand why Baba is doing like this for me and why Baba has not saved my father. He was such a nice human being, which we can never find. If he was there, many people would have taken his help. Instead of him, If I have died, it would have been good.
Friends are saying, keep everything on Baba, He will take care of. No one can do anything except God now. We are in such a critical situation. Baba, I am completely dependent on You. Only You can help me now. Please include me in all your daily prayers.