Sai Sister Priya from India says: I am Priya, a regular reader of this website and an ardent Sai devotee. I have been blessed by Baba numerous times for the past 10 months. I have also been to Shirdi recently due to His blessing. I want to share this personal experience regarding relationships, because I want His devotees to know that He will stand by them however hard the situation is and will transform the same. I am married for the past 7 years and have a child too. Due to some circumstances, especially due to bad karma or due to career choices I had to stay away from my husband for nearly 4 years. He keeps visiting us in between his work. I wanted to pursue some studies and got busy with my child and studies too. As a woman, I felt a very deep void inside me, due to the lack of emotional and mental support from my husband. We were very close to each other, but I did not have him beside my side when I needed him the most. It took a toll on me and I had to depend on friends mostly to get my work done. I felt very pained at a point when I saw that even after a child is born, there was no possibility of my husband returning to India. He works in abroad for most of his clients.

I found a friend whom I liked a lot, due to his genuineness and respect for women. He used to take me to temples and his home and I loved spending time with his mom too. Slowly I started feeling otherwise for his home and mom. I insisted often that I want to go to his home, to be with his mom and spend time with them. I felt very peaceful in their home and wished the same atmosphere at my place too. I used to feel that my home is a hell, without people and I stayed with my child and maids. Without love and affection, no place can become a home too to live. My friend understood my pain and tried his best to cheer me up. Eventually we fell in love with each other, but he always had my husband in mind. He insisted that I should always be a good wife and mother. I was happy that I found love, but I did not know if it’s right or not. I also cried to him many times please marry me later, but he used to say that he will remain with me always as a friend forever. I spent 1.5 year like this, but slowly realised that this can’t be forever.


Whenever my husband returned I found myself very different. How can I laugh, talk, touch and feel him now? I could not bear being between two men. My husband noticed a change in me and asked me about it. I confessed to him that I like my friend, but I told him that only I love him. My husband understood everything and apologised that he was not there with me to take care of me and had lost my love. I felt very bad as my husband was feeling miserable too. He did not get angry at me, he was shocked, but he realised that he was not there for me too and deserved this. He told me to marry my friend whenever I want to. I told my husband that we are in India and not in West. We took a decision to move out of the country for 6 months. In a foreign country, I missed my friend the most. The separation was unbearable for me. He also felt the same, but for my happiness he let me go. He is a wonderful person and also wanted me to settle things between me and my husband.

I wept for months, as I did not want this kind of married life. I wanted to have a normal marriage, but never thought that I would end up having an affair. I started prayers to Baba as well as other Gods. But I was drawn towards Baba the most. I began watching His serial episodes daily and felt so calm daily. Slowly all my pain was gone and within months me and my husband began to feel for each other. Initially, I told my husband that I can never forget my friend and will only say for 6 months or so, especially for our child. But it is only due to Baba's power that the whole strained relationship changed and we became normal with each other. Some may wonder how? It’s a wonder to me too. My husband never took my friend's name anytime, nor did I. I prayed to Baba to please send someone for my friend too in his life. Within months, both of us found our true partners. Me and my husband patched up, and we took a decision never to leave each other anymore. We regularly began visiting Baba temple and we started a weekly schedule of making something for Baba every Thursday and distributing at temple. I felt very lighter at heart, because Baba occupied most of my heart now. My friend too found his partner, a doctor and intends to marry her. Due to Baba, there is a complete change in all 3 of us. I don't have any sort of feelings for my friend other than friendship, and he also respects me like that only. Both of us are happy now as friends, and my husband completely trusts me too. I visited India in between and my husband completely trusted me that I will never fall in love again with my friend, even if I meet him.

Such a kind of transformation in our relationship was only possible due to Baba's grace. He gave me the strength to overcome an affair and He set my family life back on track again. My husband has never hurt me anytime at all by raking the past. We do fight over issues, but he never rakes my past relation and for this I respect him the most. I thank Baba everyday for giving me a wonderful husband. It was my bad karma that I suffered separation and made a mistake in it. But as I surrendered to Him completely, He transformed everything. He is a real miracle maker and a wonderful event manager. I did not want to share this experience as this was too personal. I was wondering should I or should I not? But Baba gave me an indication through an experience posted on July 4th, 2014 that was similar to mine. I hope it is needed to guide people in some way. I request devotees to surrender to Him completely. He is ever alive and is ever-loving. He understood my pain that all I wanted truly in a relationship was true love and affection only. I had the guilt too that I entered someone's life and left a scar in the name of love. But prayers to Baba healed him too and he also found his partner. I feel scared to even think how future would have been if I had not resorted to Baba. I would have spoilt my life, my husband's, my child as well as my friend's life. Baba saved all 4 lives and He only knows what is best. Whatever the relation is, He would solve it for us, if we are true and sincere. Om Sai Ram


© Devotees Experiences with Shirdi Sai Baba

61 comments:

  1. very glad for you devotees... always have faith on Sai maa :)

    i need a help.. im doing my BE .. actually me and a guy fell in love in my 2nd semester. He loved me so much and me too.. we take care each other so much. He used to die for me and me too. Unfortunately when he told about this to his aunt she refused. He said her that he would somehow convince his parents. But his aunt forced him to leave me and finaly he left. I love him so much and i need him back. He scolds me purposely and behaves rude to me purposely so that i have to forget him. But i know about his weakness and i want to support hi. I love him a lot even now. I didn't get angry even though he speaks rudely to me because i respect him and i love him truly. I wish Sai maa to change mind to good and bring back our relationship. Can you please suggest me what to do... I am daily in tears .. please... i love him truly and i'll support him a lot.


    JAIsri Sai Baba... Jai Sai maa... (p)

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    1. Dear, I suffered the same problem for 4 yrs. We were madly in love. His family never accepted me. But I never wanted to let go of the guy & kept sticking to him for 5 yrs. He got his sisters married & finally got married saying his family didn't approve while I was waiting just for him. As a result he's happily married to someone & I'm 28 & single. I was blind in love & didn't realize that he treated me like an option. The guy who can leave you now, will not stand by you during difficulties in life. Surrender to Baba & read Satcharita. Don't ask Baba to give him to you. Instead ask Baba to do what's good for you. He'll surely give you the guy if he's good for you.

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    2. Shree Sachinanand Sadguru Sainath Maharaj Ki Jai
      Shree Sachinanand Sadguru Sainath Maharaj Ki Jai
      Shree Sachinanand Sadguru Sainath Maharaj Ki Jai
      Surrender to Sai Baba completely

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  2. Baba, bless all of us
    OmSairam
    Bow to ShriSai peace be to all

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  3. Jai Sai Ram
    Jai Sai Ram
    Jai Sai Ram
    Jai Sai Ram
    Jai Sai Ram
    Jai Sai Ram
    Jai Sai Ram
    Jai Sai Ram
    Jai Sai Ram
    LU BABA

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  4. Sai Ram to dear fellow devotees,

    Thank you for sharing your wonderful experiences here.

    Wonderfully narrated experience this one...........

    May Sri Sai keep blessing us all.

    Read SatCharitra online@:

    https://knowmoreaboutshirdisai.wordpress.com/

    Sri SatChit Anand Satguru Sainath Maharaj ki Jai!

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  5. Dear sister, what your experience relates to mine but the difference is i was married to a beast by baba as indicated in the chennabasappa gowri story and went through living hell and baba got me out of it by crossing 7 seas to protect me and now i am in a relationship where i feel what i am, our thoughts, likes dislikes matches each others. But in a position where we can never ever cross our boundries. Only baba has to get us out of this tricky situation. I am sure baba will surely give us a right solution at right time.

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  6. OM SAI RAM
    OM SAI RAM
    OM SAI RAM

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  7. Wonderful experience !!! May Sai bless us all.

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  8. i need a help.. im doing my BE .. actually me and a guy fell in love in my 2nd semester. He loved me so much and me too.. we take care each other so much. He used to die for me and me too. Unfortunately when he told about this to his aunt she refused. He said her that he would somehow convince his parents. But his aunt forced him to leave me and finaly he left. I love him so much and i need him back. He scolds me purposely and behaves rude to me purposely so that i have to forget him. But i know about his weakness and i want to support hi. I love him a lot even now. I didn't get angry even though he speaks rudely to me because i respect him and i love him truly. I wish Sai maa to change mind to good and bring back our relationship. Can you please suggest me what to do... I am daily in tears .. please... i love him truly and i'll support him a lot. Jai Sai ma

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  9. Dear devotee, you've beautifully let your heart out. Baba saved you at the correct time. We are all in want of love & emotional support. I didn't find anything wrong on your part. Thanks for sharing this enlightening experience about Baba's blessings. And yes, your husband is a best gift to you from Baba.

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  10. Baba pls help me show me right path.always be with me .om Sai ram

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  11. om sai ram...love u baba...thks for this all ..in my life ,,..

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  12. Om sai ram...please baba bless all the childless couples with ur rehmat....plz baba...

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  13. baba after so many days again m asking something from u.baba plz sort out everything.i cant do it.baba plz this pain is unbearable.show me the path..m blind,weak,no courage,hurted and dont knw where to go what to do..baba plz hold my hand and take me where u want me to take..plz

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  14. Beautiful experience that shows that He is always watching over us :)

    O Sai, Thank You for coming into our lives and make it such a beautiful world :)

    Happy Sankranthi and Pongal to all :)

    Jai Sairam
    Sharma

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  15. Om Sai Ram Om Sai Ram Om Sai Ram Om Sai Ram Om Sai Ram Om Sai Ram Om Sai Ram Om Sai Ram Om Sai Ram

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  16. love yoiu baba...please forgive me...i need your blessings baba...please help me

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  17. love you baba..please forgive me...i need your blessings baba...please help me baba

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  18. OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM OM SAI RAM O SAI RAM OM SAI RAM

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  19. thank a lot baba...wanted to share my happy moment here....
    Last year in the month of january(date around 26 jan 2014) i checked question and answer site for some of my problems and the answer was" offer some water to saibaba on the day of makara sankranthi and your problems will be solved".I thought sankranthi was over last week so i have to wait for 1 more year.i did not forget it and wanted to offer water on that day.and today is sankranthi but i could not offer water to him as i could not enter into my pooja room coz of some common female problem..felt very bad as i have waited for 1 year and the day has come but i could not do anything.just now a saibaba vehicle has come and my mom went out to donate some money.i was standing on the steps outside seeing them.the man who is dragging the babas vehicle showed me an empty bottle and asked me for water..rest all you can imagine how i felt :)

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    1. WOW.....I CAN FEEL WHAT U MUST B FEELING....SAIMAA LOVE U....:)

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    2. I got goose bumps. You are really blessed..

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    3. REALLY BLESSED U ARE DEAR SISTER....

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    4. you are soooooooo lucky..... may baba bless you and all...........

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    5. my problem is solvedd....i got the job :) :) thanks a lot baba :)

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    6. Amazing dear. This is gift for your true devotion and you respected Sai words waited for 1 year. Really superb.
      Let god bless all
      Jai sai ram

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  20. Today is baba's day. Love U Baba.

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  21. Om sai ram.jai sai ram.
    Dear devotee?its a so wonderful exprience.so glad to hear.

    Today me too opened this link with so eager whether sai bless me by giving back my marriage life.(i married last year.nearly its one year going to be complete.
    Now he is in abroad. He didn't talk with me for last 7months.i couldn't bear this seperation.i cried to baba often -from last year june onwards i pray to him.
    But until this he didn't listened to me. I want my marriage life back.
    I don't need any life other than this.
    Please baba.pls bless me soon.
    I feel my life is meaningless.
    Om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai

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  22. om sai ram. a wonderful experience dear devotee.u r so blessed sul.

    i got married last year.it is near first year anniversary in few days. But my husband is not talk with me for last 7months.He is in abroad. due to this my life is so hell.i feel it is no meaning in living.
    during this time baba saw my suffering and drawn to himself on june 2014.
    Often i cried a lot and prayed to him to bring my marriage life back soon.But yet baba didn't bless me.
    however your experience boosting me up.please pray for me to dear friends.
    Baba please bless me by giving back marriage life and make it so happy , wonderful.
    Please change my husband's and his family member's mind.Baba you r my only ray of hope.
    om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om saio m sai om sai om sai om sai jai sai jai sai jai sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai om sai oms ai om sai om sai om saI OM SAI OM SAI OM SAI OM SAI OMS AI OM SAI OM SAI

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    1. Keeping you in my prayers. Baba will definitely help you.
      OmSairam

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    2. SAIMAA WILL BLESS YOU...NEVER LOOSE HOPE DEAR DEVOTEE....HE MUST B HAVING A GREAT LEELA ON HIS MIND FOR YOU.....U R HIS CHILD....SOMETHING WILL B BEST PLANNED....LOVE U MAA

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    3. Baba I m a normal devotee of u who s treating u as my guru. As u know very well ther s not single day I have not cried since December 7th 2013 till today,I hope u vil change my guy mind and u vl make him realise my value n send him to me as he was before wid me. Watrver communication problms v r facing must b solved baba. Its very difficult to live widout speaking to him wid whom I used to speak evry now n then n used to share my feelings.. I'm really missing him baaba.. Pls help me.

      I know very well u vil resolve my all the problems and me nd my lover will get marry and surely come Shirdi.. U vl make it possible.. I trust u baba.. Love I lottttt.



      Om Sai ram Sri Sai ram jay jay Sai ram

      Bless all ur devotees baba.. Be wid us...

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    4. Thanks a lot for ur help and your lovely words,prayers.
      Baba may bless u and ur family.

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  23. HAPPY BABA'S DAY TO ALL...LOVE U MAA....TODAY IS BEST DAY OF MY LIFE....THERE WAS A WORK PENDING SINCE YESTERDAY BUT WHY IT WAS PENDING BECAUSE MY MAA WANTS TO GIVE ME SURPRISE,,,WHEN I WENT FOR MY WORK I GOT A PLEASURE TO VISIT THAT HOUSE IN WHICH OUR SAIMAA HAD GAVE DARSHAN ON A WALL....I M PLEASED BLISSED NO WORDS TO EXPRESS THAT I M TOTALLY IN PEACE SEEING THAT I LOVE U SAIMAA

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  24. Shree Sachinanand Sadguru Sainath Maharaj Ki
    jai
    Shree Sachinanand Sadguru Sainath Maharaj Ki
    jai
    Shree Sachinanand Sadguru Sainath Maharaj Ki Jai

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  25. Happy Thursday to all.. om sai ram

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  26. Dear Oriya sister....wonderful experience ...all that baba wanted was truth and you though were about to take the incorrect path was saved by our SAI just because you were truthful....your husband sure must be a gem not to rake your past and Baba knows the same....really happy that your family is happily reunited....May Baba Bless You Abundantly !!!!! Om Sai Ram !!!!!

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  27. Baba!! Please help us. Please shower your blessings on us!!

    Om Sai ram!!

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  28. Om Sai Ram...Please bless me and my husband with children BABA...

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    1. Baba will bless you with a kid
      OmSairam

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  29. Sai maa
    like this devotee I am also blessed to have a great husband and anot amazing son
    thank u so much for it my maa
    I apologise for the biggest I did almost 8 years back
    please please please forgive me for it.
    maa hope what I am doing in the present problem is okay
    Our pk is feeling not so good
    please help him maa please
    let our Feb plan go well maa
    jdo my hand and bless me always my maa
    love u
    falling at your lotus feet

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  30. Dear Sister, I really appreciate and thank you for sharing this wonderful experience of yours. As you mentioned your concern that it was personal and you were wondering if you should or not - I say this from the bottom of my heart that Baba made you do the right thing. We human beings are stuck in all sorts of worldly issues. With Baba's blessings some devotees get a chance to heal and move on and the others get stuck in the mess until they pay for their past deeds. For those that are having issues in personal life and relationships, experiences like these are a massive ray of hope that Baba will never leave his children. Inspite of experiencing the suffering not many people come forward to lend a helping hand to others but for choosing to do that by sharing your experience, Baba will surely bless you and your family with loads of happiness...Om Shri Satchidananda Samarth Sadguru Sainath Maharaj ki Jai!

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  31. Dear Sai,
    plase save me from this situation.i did a mistake but i don knw hw to solve this and don knw hw to survive from this.pls saibaba pls forgive me and save me pls help me to getback my lost love pls save my life i dn knw hw my life will be..im feeling like hell daily..please show me ur kindness to me baba...
    om sai sri sai jai jai sai...

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  32. Dear sai devotees,
    i have a doubt.I'm often reading 'question and answer site ' to get answer from saibaba for our questions.where can i find this site?any help pls...

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  33. Baba today is my daughter's birthday.plz bless her to become a good human being.

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  34. Omsairam.love you.give good health to my father and brother.I will change my attitude and thought of mind.I am suffering for my sins.forgive me Sai maa.I kiss your lotus feet. bless my brother with a job.

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  35. a real heart pour..pranams to baba...peace to all

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  36. Om sairam. Pls bless my family, my sis and her family,my bro and family with a healthy good life.Pls be with us always and protect us under your guarding shield.Love you deva.

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  37. my one year Baba has constipation problem. 2-3 days he is not passing stools n on the day of passing is a horrible day for him. today after completing my Nav guruvar Vrath suddenly my baby started crying due to stomach pain. i came to know now today is the day i gav him jeera water, put anema, applied erendal oil nothing worked. den i went to Baba n begged to relieve my baby's pain. i gav him udi mixed in water. than what my Baba showed a miracle again. my baby stopped crying n after sometime he passed stool without pain. Thank u Baba. Keep blessing all devotees.

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  38. OM SAI RAM

    Love to ALL, Peace to ALL:)

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  39. Baba,
    Love you so much Baba.
    Anantha Koti Brahmanda Nayaka Rajadhi Raja Yogi Raja Para Brahma Shri Sachidananda Samartha Sadguru Sainath Maharaj Ki Jai.
    Sarvam Shri Sainatharpanamasthu.

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  40. Jai Sai Ram.. Very nice experiences ..

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